A heterosexual black male, a gay white male, and a filthy hillbilly male walk into a bar. The bartender says, "We don't serve your type here". The three men look at each other in confusion, turn to the bartender and say, "Which one of us are you talking to"? And that there my friends lies the question of the day ... Who was the bartender talking to?
The answer to this question will have many different answers depending on your own upbringing, beliefs, judgements, and what-not's. The sad thing about this is that there ARE answers to this question. For some of you the answer is: The Filthy Hillbilly. Look at him, he's disgusting, he reeks of Hamm's beer, he's gonna try and get in a fight with someone in this bar tonight, get him the hell out of here. For others it will be: The Heterosexual Black Male. Look at him, coming in here trying to take our white women away from us, and we all know he's bound to steal something while he's here. And then for others it's: The Gay White Male. Oh lord, look at him with his great fashion sense, his manicured nails, white teeth, tan, and that gawd-awful lisp. Get that flamer out of here, he's gonna try to hit on me, I just know it.
Now this brings up another question: How do you know that he's gay? I know many men who match the description above, hell, I might even fall into that category. So ... am I now ... gay? Well according to some people's 'Gaydar', I just might be, which I don't think is such a bad thing considering, once again, the description above. But what happens when somebody's 'Gaydar' is malfunctioning? What if it's not as finely tuned as other people's 'Gaydars' and they tell someone that there services aren't wanted because they ... well ... they just ... "look too gay"?
This happened to Aaron Pace, a 22 year old, heterosexual, black male. He wanted to donate some blood at the Bio-Blood Components donation centre in Chicago where he was turned away for "appearing to be a homosexual" and "looking too gay". Blood donation centres, including those run by the American Red Cross, do not allow gay men to donate blood because of a 30-year-old federal policy. So, who is a chosen one to determine who is gay and who isn't? Who's 'Gaydar' can we trust? Has there been new developments in 'Gaydar' technology? Well, I think that my 'Gaydar' is actually quite good, so I decided I needed to test it out for myself. I looked for a picture of Mr. Aaron Pace on the googleweb and found his picture, and, well Aaron ... you do look kinda gay.